New books make sharing food a cause for celebration, not stress
I don’t get many dinner party invitations, but I’ve learned not to take it personally.
“Cooking for people stresses me
out,” many friends explain. They are not alone.
Americans, on average, don’t cook much anymore. As Michael Pollan describes in his most recent book, Cooked, we now spend half as much time preparing meals as we did in the mid-1960s: less than 30 minutes per day. And while we have less experience in the kitchen, we idolize chefs, watch people cook on TV and Instagram our pizza. Is it any wonder that cooking for guests feels about as relaxing as hosting Julia Child for supper?
But sharing a meal needn’t require elaborate preparation, let alone professional culinary training. Eating together should be about pleasure,
not perfection.
Two new cookbooks bring home this message in different ways.